When there is an argument with people who tend to explode like fireworks, follow the below rules except
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When there is an argument with people who tend to explode like fireworks, follow the below rules except
Don’t accuse- it adds fuel to fire
Say things like ‘Calm down’
Don’t join in- you will prolong it
Don’t stay in the firing line
When someone is 'exploding like fireworks,' telling them to 'calm down' is actually counterproductive - it dismisses their emotions and often escalates things. The other rules (don't accuse, don't join in the fight, don't stay in the firing line) are all good de-escalation strategies.
Telling an already-heated person to "calm down" tends to backfire — it can feel dismissive or condescending and often escalates the argument rather than defusing it, which is exactly why it's the technique to avoid (the "except") among otherwise sound de-escalation habits like not accusing, not joining in, and staying out of the direct firing line.